The truth is I know how love has made you feel in the past.  Several  years ago, I was at a point in my life where I thought all the pieces of my dream were finally coming true. I had a new career, a good relationship, and exciting plans for the future. But little did I know that a devastating heartbreak was lurking just around the corner.

I had been with the man that I thought I would marry for seven years, and we were planning to build a life together. We shared our dreams, our challenges, and our hopes. We spent time with our families, traveled together and really loved each other.  It was a beautiful relationship that I believed was solid. But you know life has a way of throwing unexpected curve balls. I literally felt like the rug was pulled from underneath my feet. 

One day, just four weeks from our wedding day, my then fiance called off our wedding. I wondered if he was getting cold feet or if he was fearful of a lifetime commitment.  I thought maybe we just need to postpone the wedding.  No, he had made up his mind that this wedding would not happen.

How could I have missed the signs ? What had I done that would cause me to have to experience this kind of pain and humiliation?  I was blindsided. It felt like the wind had been knocked out of me.  For months I tried hanging on believing that he would come around and realize that he was making a mistake.  It was exhausting trying to cling to a man who no longer wanted a life with me.

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It took me weeks to come to my senses and accept that it was over. But one day, I decided that I had to make a choice. It was me and my emotional well-being or this fractured relationship that's now exhausting me.  I decided that I was letting go. No more holding on in the hope that he would recognize his mistake. As scary as it was to go on without him, I chose me. 

The heartbreak that followed was overwhelming. I experienced the same emotions many of you might have felt in your relationship or are feeling now: sadness, anger, confusion, rejection and a profound sense of loss. I couldn't eat or sleep for weeks, and I replayed moments of our time together, wondering what I could have done differently. 

But in those darkest moments, something beautiful happened. As I sought to heal and rebuild my life, I discovered the power of self-love and resilience. I leaned into my faith and I prayed a lot.  I learned that while heartbreak is excruciating, it can also be a transformative experience.

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Through self-discovery, prayer, therapy, and support from friends and loved ones, I gradually found my footing and rebuilt my life. I not only mended my broken heart but also discovered an inner strength I didn't know I had. I realized that, as painful as heartbreak can be, it can also be an opportunity for personal growth and a new beginning.

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So, I share this story with you not just as the course instructor but as someone who understands the depths of heartbreak. I know that the path to healing and self-discovery isn't easy, but I also know it's possible.

I'm here to guide you, support you, and provide you with the tools and insights that helped me navigate my own journey from heartbreak to healing. This course was created out of my own need for healing and breakthrough. I learned that for a breakthrough to happen in my life, I had to embrace the power of love. 

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